Many years ago, I remember talking with my sister about how numb we were growing up. Because there were so many of us kids, we learned to tolerate any situation, any temperature, without worrying about how we were feeling. She was going through therapy, as was I, and at one point in the conversation, she […]
Learning to Dance With the Limp
Something crazy happened on Saturday morning. Dan and I had an overnight in Minneapolis—to see Jersey Boys and eat tapas at Solera. We were the first ones to show up to breakfast the next morning. We ordered. Then, a cute older couple walked in (not old, maybe mid-50s). They walked past us, and the guy […]
Faulty Reasoning When it Comes to God?
You’re probably familiar with some psychology terms—from college courses or leisure reading you’ve picked up along the way; therefore, you’ll recall that children do this thing called “teleo-functional reasoning.” Never mind the term. You probably wouldn’t remember that. [At least I wouldn’t.] But you may remember what it means: the belief that something exists for […]
Your Body Remembers What Your Mind Cannot
When I try to recall what my first memories were, I get quick uneven snapshots in my mind, nothing neatly laid out or in any recognizable order. Although I remember a few things before kindergarten (like the shapes my father used to mow in the grass for us or an old organ my great-grandmother let […]
Being a Human Bridge
I’m reading Mark Nepo’s The Exquisite Risk: Daring To Live An Authentic Life, and I’ve come to the chapter entitled “You Must Reverse the Haiku.” Here’s Nepo, explaining. “So, the question each day becomes: When pressed by life, do I bridge or isolate? Do I reconnect the web of life and listen to its wisdom? […]